You do not have a right to sex. A “right” means a claim that someone has on someone else. For instance, you have a right to be physically safe: others must respect your right to physical safety and cannot harm you. Their freedom is limited because of your right.
Sex, like countless other things in life that we want, is a privilege, not a right. If you want to have sex, you need to earn it. You earn it by becoming a more attractive man and the kind of person that women want to have sex with.
Why is this important? Isn’t it obvious? No. It’s important precisely because it’s not obvious to many men. There are men who whine and complain about not getting laid. They complain that “the women here are bitches” who won’t give him the time of day. They say that “women only want X” where you can fill in the blank with whatever hobbyhorse strikes your fancy–money, looks, cars, mansions, fame, muscles, assholes, jocks, bad boys, the list goes on and on and on.
Without saying it outright, they seem to believe, somewhere inside, that they are entitled to getting laid. Well, wake up and smell the celibacy: women don’t owe you shit. Just because you really, really, really, really want it doesn’t mean anything. Women don’t owe you shit. Are some women idiots? Bitches? Gold diggers? Wouldn’t know a good guy if he fell into her lap? Definitely. No question. So you can either get upset and emotional about how some women are idiots, beautiful creatures who don’t “appreciate” the amazingness that is you… or you can work to change what you can.
Put another way, do you “owe” sex or a relationship to an ugly girl with a terrible personality? Would any of these whining and complaining men ever be down for that? Hell no! But what if she wants to get laid? What if she really, really, really, really likes you? Those same guys complaining about how tough it is to get laid would be the first to say “my body, my rules.”
There have been periods in my life where I could not get laid in a brothel. But never once did I ever think there was something wrong with “women” in general. The onus was on me to improve myself and become more attractive and desirable. And to learn how dating and mating works so that I could get what I wanted.
Getting laid is a privilege. Sex is a reward given to you by the universe for putting in the time and effort into bettering yourself. Sex with someone you desire is earned through achieving something. And the more sexual options you want, the more you need to achieve. That work can come in many forms: it could be creating a hit single; it could be building a corporate empire; it could be doing 10,000 street approaches.
We live in a competitive world. Everybody wants something. Everybody is trying to get their piece of the pie. There are men in this world who are getting off their ass and striving to get what they want. They’re taking it from the world, not expecting the world to give it to them. How about you?