To maximize your growth, you need to strike the balance between intense crazy experiences, and small consistent actions.
Instead of thinking of these as polar opposites, think of them as two sides of the same coin: both are necessary for growth in your social skills and attraction skills.
Too much of one or the other will lead to sub-par growth. Too much consistency and sustainability leads to stagnation and staying in your comfort zone. And too much crazy risk-taking will lead to burnout.
I discussed this topic more at a recent event here in New York, listen below: