How to Get Massive Dating & Social Progress – Talking with my Client Max (Audio)

Here is part 2 of my conversation with my one-on-one client Max, who finished up a long-term program with me recently (hear the first part here). We get into the details of: Where he was at the beginning of our program What motivated him to seek help His tangible achievements in meeting women, getting dates and … Read more

What Max Learned from Our Long Term Program (Audio)

A client of mine recently finished up a long term program, here we talk about the biggest things he learned from the process. We discuss topics like: Learning to set boundaries with women Focusing less on “what to say” and more on “how to say it” Informational vs emotional communication Learning and accepting your true … Read more

Why Relaxing is Critical to Your Flirting and Dating Success – Guys & Girls (Audio)

Here is a talk I gave to a group of guys and girls on relaxation and flirtation. Something interesting I always notice is that the principles of attraction for men and women are more or less the same. The only thing that differs is the execution and strategy. But concepts like confidence, being relaxed, playfulness, looking good, etc, … Read more

How to Improve Your Looks Fast: Get Clothes That Fit

Men’s fashion has a lot of different elements. You have colors, patterns, sizes, and the overall look or personality you are projecting with your clothes. I can personally attest to the significance of clothing. At one point when I was improving my skills with approaching and meeting women, I made a big change to the way I … Read more

Basics for Night Game in New York City

These are basic foundations for successful night game in New York City. In the next article, I will get into more detailed strategy and tactics. It’s focused on guys that don’t have a huge group of hot women to go out with (which would provide social proof in nightlife venues), but rather just a guy or … Read more

How Hard do You Work to be Hot?

When you actually think about it, women spend a LOT more time on their attractiveness than men do. This means two big things. First, the hotter the woman, in all likelihood, the more she is working on her attractiveness. Second, it’s relatively easy to stand out from other men if you make even a small … Read more

Your Face is Killing Your Game

This isn’t about being ugly. Your physical looks make surprisingly little difference in your success with women. This is about your facial expressions as you approach and talk to women. The problem with the face The face is the first thing people see when they look at you. Whatever expression you have on your face in that split … Read more

Don’t Be a Creepy PUA

European dating coach Steve Jabba recently made this video below about PUA guys in London, but the same lessons apply here in New York and elsewhere. I think there are a lot of guys that see crazy antics on YouTube and think they can pull off these things in real life. They are socially maladjusted or socially … Read more

Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date

The last 3 clips of my talk with Sarah of IntrovertedAlpha.com about her first date with her future boyfriend. Check out part 1-3 here and part 4-6 here. Part 7: Connecting with her and positive energy Part 8: Their first kiss and more on physical escalation Part 9: Connection, sexual openness and the path of improvement