10 Tips to Meet Women in Your Daily Life (Audio)

Here is the audio from a 30 minute talk I gave in NYC on “meeting women in your daily life.” I go over 10 simple tactics to make meeting women on a regular basis easier and smoother. The key lesson here is that approaching and having conversations with women is something you need to integrate … Read more

How to Talk to Busy Women in New York City

In a city where everyone is busy with work, friends and countless social events, it can be hard to stand out. I’ve noticed that the very attractive women also tend to be busy women in NYC. Prepare yourself to meet an attractive woman who might be rushing between meetings, running late for class, or going to … Read more

Where to Meet Women in New York: Places and Activities

A question I get a lot at my talks and events: where do you meet women in New York? It always seems like a silly question because New York is literally packed with attractive, interesting women everywhere you turn. However, if you’re looking for something more specific than just “anywhere in the daytime” or “popular bars and … Read more

5 Simple Tips to Meet Women on the NYC Subway

I’ve successfully met plenty of women from the New York subway. Here are some key tactics to make it work. 1. Contact info Have business cards or contact cards ready for quick exchanges. You won’t have to worry about wasting time typing in her number, getting it wrong, retyping, etc, before the doors close and you … Read more

3 Simple Steps to Get Women to Approach YOU!

Do men always have to do the approaching? Not necessarily. Women do approach men in lots of situations. I’ve always said that one of the best, and simplest, ways to take your dating life into your own hands is to just talk to more women. But there are plenty of opportunities to get women to come up … Read more

5 Reasons Why Online Dating Makes Meeting Women in Person Easier… Yes, Easier!

I say, bring on your dating apps. It makes it easier for me to meet women in real life. Where others see obstacles and problems, you should see opportunities. Most would say the prevalence of online dating and apps make in-person connection harder. I think the opposite is true. Here’s why. 1. Women are less accustomed … Read more

3 Ways to Get Out of Your Head When Meeting Women (Audio)

Here’s the audio of a talk I gave at a rooftop bar in New York on how to get out of your head, learn to relax in social situations, and improve your conversations with attractive women. These are some simple techniques you can do to open up, get in the moment, and have more fun … Read more

Meeting Women from Foreign Cultures – Thoughts from Medellin, Colombia

I am writing this from a cafe in Medellin, Colombia. This is my first trip out of the US in a very long time. I’ve met a bunch of women just in the short time I’ve been here. It’s been an interesting experience but has also reaffirmed a lot of what I already believed about the universals … Read more

Approach Anxiety’s Odd Cousin: The Walkaway Blues

Everyone is familiar with approach anxiety: that nervousness and hesitation you feel right before walking up to someone you’re interested in and saying hi. But there is a flip side to approach anxiety. I call it the “Walkaway Blues.” Whereas approach anxiety affects you before you approach a woman, the walkaway blues affect you after, … Read more