“Only Screwed up Women Have Quick Sex”

From time to time I hear from self-styled “smart” guys who “know how it is,” that the only women who will have quick sex are undesirable, low-quality screw-ups. They also assume you can only sleep with interesting, smart and “high quality” women by wining and dining them, taking them on lots of dates, and building a relationship … Read more

What She Means By “I Want to Make Friends First”

If you look at women’s online dating profiles, a lot of them say “I want to make friends first, and then see where things go from there.” She wants to become “friends” with a guy, before getting into a sexual or romantic relationship. Women might often say this in person as well. But we are all familiar … Read more

Effective Night Game Strategy for Meeting New York City Women

In the last article I looked at basic stuff like how to dress, and how to plan the night for New York night game. Now let’s look at more specific actions to take to approach and attract women. Warm up and get in a talkative mood This is especially important for introverted guys like myself. We … Read more

How to Get Laid on New Years Eve and Other Big Events

Since New Years Eve is here, I thought I would give some thought to this popular topic. This advice incorporates what I’ve already discussed for getting laid quick and the challenges of holidays. Warm up and get some momentum You can’t expect to just show up and have some girl fall on your dick. While this absolutely can happen, … Read more

4 Ways to Make it Clear You Want Something Casual

The last thing you want is to waste your time dating a girl for weeks or months who wants something different than you. If you want a casual relationship, and she wants something serious, you are wasting a lot of time and energy on a relationship that is doomed. Use these tips to avoid those problems. It’s not … Read more

Make Her Wet with Your Words: Sexual Conversation

I got a great question recently on my feedback form: Can you demonstrate some ways to get her pussy wet while I’m talking to her? Most guys have very safe and comfortable conversations with women. They are deathly afraid of taking a risk and pushing things in a sexual direction. The underlying fear or hesitation … Read more

Are Women Harder to Pick Up Today than in the Past?

Are women harder to pick up today? This is an interesting question a reader asked me recently. I would say the answer is “yes and no.” In some ways, it is far, far easier today to have casual sex, short term relationships and quick sex in general than in the past (say, 30 years ago or … Read more

No More Token Resistance From Women?

This article on the recent “Yes Means Yes” law in California generated some controversy. It features a letter from a recent male college graduate. He talks about an experience with a woman he went out with: One night I ended up back in a girl’s room after a first date… She had invited me in and … Read more