5 Reasons Why Online Dating Makes Meeting Women in Person Easier… Yes, Easier!

I say, bring on your dating apps. It makes it easier for me to meet women in real life. Where others see obstacles and problems, you should see opportunities. Most would say the prevalence of online dating and apps make in-person connection harder. I think the opposite is true. Here’s why. 1. Women are less accustomed … Read more

How to Meet Women When You Have a Busy Schedule

A very common challenge I hear from clients is that they don’t have time to meet women. They might work long hours or otherwise have busy schedules. In a city like New York, people are always busy. If you’re gainfully employed and have normal commitments, you’re not going to have tons of time on your hands to … Read more

Common Challenges for Beginners Approaching Women (video)

I had a great conversation with my friend Steve from NYC Daygame about the obstacles that a lot of guys face when they start trying to be more social, approaching women and having conversations. We talk about the importance of improving your conversation skills, developing the right mindset, and taking action. Check out the video below:

Topless girl fails to get approached in NYC – would you approach her? (photos)

On a recent Sunday afternoon I was sitting in a busy park here in New York. Kids were running around, some people were playing volleyball, and so on. It was a nice sunny day. Plenty of girls were out wearing small clothes (one thing I like about summer in the city). Then two hot girls walk on the scene. They are topless. They … Read more

Night Game Psychology for the Introverted Man

These are some of my thoughts on night game mentality for introverts. I have done plenty of night game (meeting and attracting women in the nighttime), but I generally prefer day game and that is where my skills and personality really seem to shine. However if I were to do night game more frequently, I would … Read more

Approaching women when there are other people around

Approaching women when you are in the midst of other people is often a scary and intimidating situation. For whatever reason, we are programmed to be concerned about other people’s opinions and judgments of us. It could be a beautiful woman sitting on the train, or walking down the street, or standing in line in a … Read more

Keep the opener simple to start conversations with women

I noticed something recently when I was talking to a few girls. At the beginning, with the first girl I approached for the day, I tried to do a “complicated” opener. I saw she had a book open in front of her, but she was instead looking at her phone (pictures on Facebook or Instagram or something). … Read more

The fallacy of the sexy outfit: 6 nonsexual reasons for her sexy clothes

The common belief is that a girl in a sexy outfit is “looking to meet guys.” Not necessarily. The reason we might think this is because we project our desires onto her. We see her in skimpy clothes, and we want to have sex with her, so we assume “wow, look at how much she … Read more

Why hesitation is such a killer

Hesitation is a major issue for guys that are new to meeting women and approaching strangers. I have found that women can forgive a lot, from awkward attempts at physical escalation to general nervousness. But one thing they almost never forgive is hesitation. I think women are far more interested in a guy who is … Read more