Meeting Women from Foreign Cultures – Thoughts from Medellin, Colombia

I am writing this from a cafe in Medellin, Colombia. This is my first trip out of the US in a very long time. I’ve met a bunch of women just in the short time I’ve been here. It’s been an interesting experience but has also reaffirmed a lot of what I already believed about the universals … Read more

The Myth of the Incel

The incel or “involuntary celibate.” The incel is a popular idea out there is some corners of the internet. (This is such a funny term. “Incel” sounds like some evil creature in a Tolkien novel.) Although it may sound totally wrong, even offensive, to those who feel that they are celibate involuntarily, the harsh truth … Read more

Why do we desire sex?

The question of why people have sex is addressed in this article from Psychology Today. First of all, it’s clear that reproduction alone cannot be the explanation for sex. People have sex well past fertile years and at all times of the woman’s cycle, including times when she cannot become pregnant. Moreover, many sexual behaviors we … Read more

Why men with options use prostitutes

This recent article from the New York Observer offers a glimpse into the mind of a man who could have “any woman he wants” but still patronizes prostitutes. Men who are desperate and could not get laid to save their lives are one thing. But here we’re talking about high-income men, often decent-looking, in nice … Read more