“Only Screwed up Women Have Quick Sex”

From time to time I hear from self-styled “smart” guys who “know how it is,” that the only women who will have quick sex are undesirable, low-quality screw-ups. They also assume you can only sleep with interesting, smart and “high quality” women by wining and dining them, taking them on lots of dates, and building a relationship … Read more

Sexual fantasies, temporary moments and escapism

Both men and women yearn for an escape. Just as a woman might rationalize that making out with a guy in a nightclub “doesn’t count,” a man can rationalize the same thing about squeezing and fondling a stripper in a strip club. Both venues are a kind of “alternate reality,” a fantasy world where the … Read more