Taking Risks in Your Dating Life vs Sustainable Growth (Audio)

To maximize your growth, you need to strike the balance between intense crazy experiences, and small consistent actions. Instead of thinking of these as polar opposites, think of them as two sides of the same coin: both are necessary for growth in your social skills and attraction skills. Too much of one or the other will lead … Read more

“Only Screwed up Women Have Quick Sex”

From time to time I hear from self-styled “smart” guys who “know how it is,” that the only women who will have quick sex are undesirable, low-quality screw-ups. They also assume you can only sleep with interesting, smart and “high quality” women by wining and dining them, taking them on lots of dates, and building a relationship … Read more

10 Tips to Meet Women in Your Daily Life (Audio)

Here is the audio from a 30 minute talk I gave in NYC on “meeting women in your daily life.” I go over 10 simple tactics to make meeting women on a regular basis easier and smoother. The key lesson here is that approaching and having conversations with women is something you need to integrate … Read more

How to Talk to Busy Women in New York City

In a city where everyone is busy with work, friends and countless social events, it can be hard to stand out. I’ve noticed that the very attractive women also tend to be busy women in NYC. Prepare yourself to meet an attractive woman who might be rushing between meetings, running late for class, or going to … Read more

How to Get Massive Dating & Social Progress – Talking with my Client Max (Audio)

Here is part 2 of my conversation with my one-on-one client Max, who finished up a long-term program with me recently (hear the first part here). We get into the details of: Where he was at the beginning of our program What motivated him to seek help His tangible achievements in meeting women, getting dates and … Read more

Where to Meet Women in New York: Places and Activities

A question I get a lot at my talks and events: where do you meet women in New York? It always seems like a silly question because New York is literally packed with attractive, interesting women everywhere you turn. However, if you’re looking for something more specific than just “anywhere in the daytime” or “popular bars and … Read more