Where to Meet Women in New York: Places and Activities

A question I get a lot at my talks and events: where do you meet women in New York? It always seems like a silly question because New York is literally packed with attractive, interesting women everywhere you turn. However, if you’re looking for something more specific than just “anywhere in the daytime” or “popular bars and … Read more

5 Simple Tips to Meet Women on the NYC Subway

I’ve successfully met plenty of women from the New York subway. Here are some key tactics to make it work. 1. Contact info Have business cards or contact cards ready for quick exchanges. You won’t have to worry about wasting time typing in her number, getting it wrong, retyping, etc, before the doors close and you … Read more

3 Simple Steps to Get Women to Approach YOU!

Do men always have to do the approaching? Not necessarily. Women do approach men in lots of situations. I’ve always said that one of the best, and simplest, ways to take your dating life into your own hands is to just talk to more women. But there are plenty of opportunities to get women to come up … Read more

What Max Learned from Our Long Term Program (Audio)

A client of mine recently finished up a long term program, here we talk about the biggest things he learned from the process. We discuss topics like: Learning to set boundaries with women Focusing less on “what to say” and more on “how to say it” Informational vs emotional communication Learning and accepting your true … Read more

How Do I Stay Motivated to Meet New Women?

A client asked me this question about staying motivated recently. He’s been doing really well during our program, and wonders how he can keep the passion alive. It’s actually something that I’ve been considering for myself lately too. There are basically two ways to stay motivated and continue taking action: (1) You have a very clear … Read more

How to Set Simple but Effective Goals (Audio)

It’s tempting to set over-ambitious goals for yourself when trying to improve your conversation, flirting or seduction skills. This is a common mistake I see with lots of guys. They are frustrated and want to get better quick. Unfortunately, they often set goals that are too ambitious, fail, crash and burn, fall into a pit … Read more

5 Reasons Why Online Dating Makes Meeting Women in Person Easier… Yes, Easier!

I say, bring on your dating apps. It makes it easier for me to meet women in real life. Where others see obstacles and problems, you should see opportunities. Most would say the prevalence of online dating and apps make in-person connection harder. I think the opposite is true. Here’s why. 1. Women are less accustomed … Read more

Why Men Lack Confidence with Women

Why do so many men today lack confidence? Everyone knows that confidence is important for success with women and dating. So why do so many guys have trouble in this area? There are two main types of confidence: we can call them “constructed” confidence and “pure” confidence. The first is constructed over time through life experience. The second … Read more

Why Relaxing is Critical to Your Flirting and Dating Success – Guys & Girls (Audio)

Here is a talk I gave to a group of guys and girls on relaxation and flirtation. Something interesting I always notice is that the principles of attraction for men and women are more or less the same. The only thing that differs is the execution and strategy. But concepts like confidence, being relaxed, playfulness, looking good, etc, … Read more