Are Direct Openers Better in the Day Than the Night?

In general, the “opener” (or conversation starter) that you use does not really matter. What matters is that you are speaking genuinely and from your heart. If you feel like opening indirect by complimenting her earrings, then do that. If you feel like just expressing your appreciation of her beauty, do that. But there was … Read more

Don’t Be a Creepy PUA

European dating coach Steve Jabba recently made this video below about PUA guys in London, but the same lessons apply here in New York and elsewhere. I think there are a lot of guys that see crazy antics on YouTube and think they can pull off these things in real life. They are socially maladjusted or socially … Read more

Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date

The last 3 clips of my talk with Sarah of about her first date with her future boyfriend. Check out part 1-3 here and part 4-6 here. Part 7: Connecting with her and positive energy Part 8: Their first kiss and more on physical escalation Part 9: Connection, sexual openness and the path of improvement

Avoid Neediness – The Difference Between Needing and Wanting

Neediness is known as an unattractive quality. But how do we sexually escalate with women, or get any kind of result, without coming across as needy? I recently posted a video of a guy asking 100 girls to have sex on the street. One thing you notice about him is that he doesn’t exhibit much neediness, … Read more

Sarah’s First Date With Her Boyfriend

Continuing with my talk with dating coach Sarah of about her first date with her boyfriend. See clips 1-3 here. Here we talk about her future boyfriend’s energy and vibe on their first date, his confidence level, getting physical and nonverbal communication. Part 4: Dominance, confidence and good energy Part 5: Getting physical on the first date … Read more

Asking 100 Girls to Have Sex in Las Vegas

A while back I wrote about a social experiment where a guy approached 100 women and asked them to have sex. Although he did not get any definite yes responses, he did get a sizable number of positive responses which, to anyone who understands attraction and social norms, is pretty significant. Here (below) is a different … Read more

What We Can Learn from Sarah’s First Impression of Her Boyfriend

I had a Skype chat with my friend Sarah of about her first date with her boyfriend. We had about an hour long conversation and I broke it down into shorter clips. You can hear the whole thing or skip to individual clips. Sarah (who is herself a men’s dating coach) has been dating her boyfriend for … Read more

4 Major Types of Guys Who Suck With Women

These are the four categories that most guys who get bad results fall into. Mr. Shadow Like a shadow, he’s just kind of in the corner or off to the side not talking to anybody. He’s shy and socially awkward. He’s the wallflower. He doesn’t take up much physical space or social space. Not only … Read more

Being Sexy Does Not Make You A Good (or Bad) Person

One of the critical lessons of modern game, seduction, and pickup: sex appeal and human goodness are two different things. This should be obvious. But it is not. Countless people in our culture believe some version of the following statement: If I am just a good person, work hard, play by the rules, and be nice … Read more